Pass around a blank journal book, ask the guest to write their own memory of the bride and or groom.
Instead of the traditional guest book, have a framed canvas for your guest to sign. This is something you can hang in your home together as a unique memory of your wedding day.
o Leave blank squares to mount snap shots, from the ceremony to make as a collage.
Another thought is have a friend of family member at the door with a Polaroid instant camera. Take photos of each guest as they enter, and have them sign the photo. That way you really get to see everyone of your guests!
Really neat idea mail each guest a guestbook page. They can take their time and create, write something special. The guests then bring the page with them to be placed in the guestbook. What an awesome memory, very personal, and very unique.
o The bride and groom will have something much more well thought out then a hurried scrawl in a book as they pass by, they get to think and create and make it memorable.
o Great for all those scrap booking creative people out there, they can make a masterpiece for the couple perhaps including some memory photos of themselves with the bride and or groom!
Try a Birthday Calendar the Bright Life blog spotlights a fun way to remember your guests – with a birthday calendar guestbook. Each guest locates their birthday and signs on that square. What a fun way to document attendees as well as create a handy calendar for remembering the birthdays of the special people in your life.
If having a vintage, rustic or shabby chic affair, consider placing your instructions to your guests inside an old typewriter. Nice touch, functional, and adds to your decor.
Writing on puzzle pieces is a new trend. You can put the puzzle pieces together and later frame it. From: Bella Puzzles
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Wedding Ideas: Including your pet in the wedding day!
So, you logged onto the wedding blog today and weren’t expecting this double dose of canine cuteness, were you? Today we’re discussing something that is coming up more and more with couples– including your dog in your wedding ceremony.
With all the wrangling that goes into making sure the tiny tots who serve as flower girls or ring bearers make it down the aisle, why not consider including Fido in the wedding party? To those of us who consider our pets to be part of the family, this only seems natural! If you are planning to have your dog walk down the aisle, here are some things you might want to know in order to have a pet-friendly ceremony:
First things first, ensure that the church, hotel, or other venue that you are using for your ceremony allows pets on the premises. They may have a strict no-pooch policy or you could be required to place a non-refundable deposit to cover the cost of cleanup of any “accidents” (this practice is most common with hotel chains).
Next, practice makes perfect! If you haven’t already taken them, consider enrolling in obedience classes to learn the basic commands for sit, stay, and heel. This will benefit you beyond the wedding, but it will also teach your pup good manners when it comes to walking down the aisle. Socialization is important, too. Only you can gage how well your dog does with groups of people and receiving a lot of attention.
Assign a handler to your dog. This person should be in charge of not only escorting them down the aisle, but also making sure they have been walked before hand (this will get a lot of their energy out as well as give them a chance to use the potty) and are provided with water afterwards. Make sure you have a plan for what to do with your dog after the ceremony. Remember, you will likely be moving on to family photos and the reception and your pet will need a safe and comfy place to go, as well.
If you’re planning to make your dog the honorary ring bearer, do not allow them to carry the actual rings (most brides I’ve seen have sewn a small ring pillow to the collar on larger dogs or attached a lightweight pouch for smaller dogs). The last thing you want is for them to get lost, chewed up, or swallowed.
Inform your guests! Put this information on your wedding website as a warning to anyone with allergies so that they can plan accordingly.
Prepare your photographer to capture your pet in action. It'll help your photographer prep for those unplanned moments, like when your dog leaps up to kiss you during the vows. Your photographer can also help you brainstorm fun photo ideas with your pets for after the ceremony.
If you keep these suggestions in mind and your dog will be a comfortable, obedient, and treasured guest at your wedding.
Dogs Aren’t the Only Pets You Can Include!
Love your horse? Ride into the ceremony on her.
Bring your bunny or cat for some pretty bridal portraits.
If you have questions on this or any other wedding related topic, please post for me here on the blog. Also become a fan on Facebook (search: Magnifique Boutique)
With all the wrangling that goes into making sure the tiny tots who serve as flower girls or ring bearers make it down the aisle, why not consider including Fido in the wedding party? To those of us who consider our pets to be part of the family, this only seems natural! If you are planning to have your dog walk down the aisle, here are some things you might want to know in order to have a pet-friendly ceremony:
First things first, ensure that the church, hotel, or other venue that you are using for your ceremony allows pets on the premises. They may have a strict no-pooch policy or you could be required to place a non-refundable deposit to cover the cost of cleanup of any “accidents” (this practice is most common with hotel chains).
Next, practice makes perfect! If you haven’t already taken them, consider enrolling in obedience classes to learn the basic commands for sit, stay, and heel. This will benefit you beyond the wedding, but it will also teach your pup good manners when it comes to walking down the aisle. Socialization is important, too. Only you can gage how well your dog does with groups of people and receiving a lot of attention.
Assign a handler to your dog. This person should be in charge of not only escorting them down the aisle, but also making sure they have been walked before hand (this will get a lot of their energy out as well as give them a chance to use the potty) and are provided with water afterwards. Make sure you have a plan for what to do with your dog after the ceremony. Remember, you will likely be moving on to family photos and the reception and your pet will need a safe and comfy place to go, as well.
If you’re planning to make your dog the honorary ring bearer, do not allow them to carry the actual rings (most brides I’ve seen have sewn a small ring pillow to the collar on larger dogs or attached a lightweight pouch for smaller dogs). The last thing you want is for them to get lost, chewed up, or swallowed.
Inform your guests! Put this information on your wedding website as a warning to anyone with allergies so that they can plan accordingly.
Prepare your photographer to capture your pet in action. It'll help your photographer prep for those unplanned moments, like when your dog leaps up to kiss you during the vows. Your photographer can also help you brainstorm fun photo ideas with your pets for after the ceremony.
If you keep these suggestions in mind and your dog will be a comfortable, obedient, and treasured guest at your wedding.
Dogs Aren’t the Only Pets You Can Include!
Love your horse? Ride into the ceremony on her.
Bring your bunny or cat for some pretty bridal portraits.
If you have questions on this or any other wedding related topic, please post for me here on the blog. Also become a fan on Facebook (search: Magnifique Boutique)
Friday, May 11, 2012
Adorable Wedding Signs
Wedding signs are all the rage for personalizing your wedding. It is a really fun project for the Groom, or you can purchase custom signs on sites like etsy.com. The beauty of a wedding sign is that you can have it say absolutely anything you want, the more creative the better. Detail is always key in weddings, and signs are an inexpensive way to add those extra details. Here are some of what I think are the most adorable wedding signs…
The “Here Comes the Bride” banner and sign concept is definitely trending. We love it, and we don’t want it to go away. Whether it comes in a banner form, sign or even flag form. It’s super adorable and a great entry for the Bride!
Absolutely perfect way to personalize your ceremony altar. No flowers necessary with this statement piece.
Perfect way to add a little fun to your photos. These would be really cute if you didn’t know what the other was saying and the revealing came when you got your wedding photos back.
This was a favorite of mine, when people don’t know your story, you can share it with them. A great and entertaining read, perfect for your cocktail hour or near a dessert bar to start conversation.
Photo booths seem to just be part of every wedding now, so get a sign the signifies the location of the photo booth so your guests don’t miss out on all the fun.
“Pucker Up” enough said. There is a lot of love to share, this is a great sign to include in your thank you cards. Too cute!
I love that this sign sets the tone for the wedding and is a great welcome for guests.
Sometimes a picture says a thousand words. In this case you don’t need to have any words, but you still are offering that wedding personalization.
Start the ball rolling by posting a comment on this article!
The “Here Comes the Bride” banner and sign concept is definitely trending. We love it, and we don’t want it to go away. Whether it comes in a banner form, sign or even flag form. It’s super adorable and a great entry for the Bride!
Absolutely perfect way to personalize your ceremony altar. No flowers necessary with this statement piece.
Perfect way to add a little fun to your photos. These would be really cute if you didn’t know what the other was saying and the revealing came when you got your wedding photos back.
This was a favorite of mine, when people don’t know your story, you can share it with them. A great and entertaining read, perfect for your cocktail hour or near a dessert bar to start conversation.
Photo booths seem to just be part of every wedding now, so get a sign the signifies the location of the photo booth so your guests don’t miss out on all the fun.
“Pucker Up” enough said. There is a lot of love to share, this is a great sign to include in your thank you cards. Too cute!
Two of my favorite signs are the “I Do, Me Too” signs. They just seem sweet.
Sometimes a picture says a thousand words. In this case you don’t need to have any words, but you still are offering that wedding personalization.
Start the ball rolling by posting a comment on this article!
Shoe Lover?
Our inventory is ever changing! We just got in some of the cutest new shoes. Do you love color, sparkles, bows and flowers? Then check these out and remember you can design your perfect wedding shoes at Magnifique Boutique!
These can be dyed to match any wedding color!
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Veils Explained!
Blusher Veil
The blusher veil is a short, single layer of veiling worn over the bride's face before the ceremony. It usually measures between 24 to 26 inches from the top of the headpiece to the hem of the veil. Traditionally, the groom will lift the blusher veil at the end of the ceremony to kiss his bride for the first time as husband and wife. Another popular way to lift the veil is for the father of the bride to escort his daughter down the aisle, and once they reach the alter and her groom, he lifts the blusher to kiss her and present her to the groom.
Birdcage Veil
The traditional birdcage veil is a short veil that extends just below the chin of the bride. However, a new way to wear it is to crop the net so it falls just below the eyes or to sweep it asymmetrically across the face. The birdcage veil is a dramatic, modern, and unique choice of veil. The bride must have a vibrant and fashion-forward personality, as well as, be a bold and confident woman.
A birdcage veil is made of French, Russian, or English netting. The size of the squares that make up the netting is what differentiates the three classifications, with the French netting being the tightest weave with the smallest squares and the English being the largest squares.
Shoulder Length Veil, also called the Flyaway Veil
The shoulder length veil measures approximately 18 to 22 inches in length. A shoulder length veil is perfect for dresses that have a lot of details, such as beading, on the bust, waist or lower back. It doesn't compete with the details and allows them to be seen by guests and easily photographed. Shoulder veils are great for less formal events, where the bride wants to show off her beautiful dress.
A great version of the shoulder length veil is the flyaway veil. It is for the more "spunky" bride that wants her wedding to be all about fun and fashion, and less about tradition. This is a multi-layered veil that brushes the shoulders, measuring 18 inches in length. It is a less formal style of wedding veil and a great choice for brides wishing to emphasize the back details of their gown and for an ankle length wedding dress.
Elbow Length Veil
An Elbow length veil extends down to the elbow, and can be a single layered or multi-layered when paired with a blusher veil. It measures about 25 inches long and is most appropriate in an informal setting. Elbow length veils look beautiful with a romantic ball gown style dress, because they end where the fullness of the skirt begins.
Fingertip Length Veil
The fingertip length veil is the most commonly worn style, because it is universally flattering on every size and shape of bride, as well as it coordinates well with the majority of dress styles. This popular veil is called fingertip length because it is approximately 36 to 45 inches long and extends to the bride's fingertips.
Kate Middleton wore an absolutely gorgeous silk tulle fingertip length veil when she married Prince William on April 29, 2011. The length of her veil was a unexpected surprise, yet, it was perfect compliment to her delicate figure and elegant dress. Most people expected a cathedral length or regal cathedral length veil, but Kate's choice to wear a beautiful fingertip length veil enabled her to show off her stunning Alexander McQueen gown while maintaining the formality of the Royal Wedding.
Waltz Length Veil, also called Ballet Length Veil
The Ballet veil also called the waltz veil is extremely flattering on brides wearing a fitted gown without a train. It is a beautiful long length, but doesn't overpower a delicate or body-hugging dress. The length of the ballet veil is approximately 45 to 60 inches long and falls somewhere between the knee and the ankle.
Chapel Length Veil, also called a Sweep Veil, or Full Length Veil
Chapel length veil, sweep veil and full veil are interchangeable names for the length of veil that just brushes the floor. The chapel veil typically measures between 70 and 90 inches, and it should extend 6 to 12 inches beyond the train of the gown.
The Chapel Length or sweep veil is a great veil for a formal, elaborate gown with a chapel or sweep train. It is slightly shorter than the cathedral length veil, but they still drape onto the floor. Also, it is a great length have a multiple layer veil and combining the blusher veil and an elbow length veil.
Cathedral Length Veil
The Cathedral length veil is the longest and most formal wedding veil. It is the ultimate show stopper and looks best when worn with a cathedral or semi-cathedral length gown. The cathedral length veil is perfect for
the dramatic bride, having a formal event and a long aisle to walk down. It usually measures between 108 to 120 inches. Traditionally the veil is taken off after the ceremony and wrapped around the couples chairs at the reception to show they are united as one. Then the veil is kept and wrapped around the bassinet of their first born child as good luck.
Brides who are looking for an even longer veil, can go for the Regal Cathedral length veil which extends 130 inches or more. A great example of this veil worn by the beloved Princess Diana when she married Prince Charles.
Additional Veil terms to know when looking for your wedding veil:
Pouf Veil
A pouf veil is a gathered piece of tulle or netting that fastens to a headband, comb or headpiece to create additional height for the veil.
Mantilla Veil
A mantilla is a circular veil made lace, silk or tulle with lace around the edge. It is secured with a comb which allows the veil to frame the face and drape over the head and shoulders. The mantilla veil is typically associated with traditional devotional practices among women in Catholicism.
A mantilla veil is most appropriate for formal and semi-formal weddings held within a church, but can be worn at other ceremony locations as long as it coordinates with the wedding gown and the theme or type of wedding.
Double Tier Veil
A double tier veil consists of two layers, usually of different lengths. A double tier veil is a great option for brides who want to wear a blusher during their ceremony.
Triple Tier Veil
A triple tier veil consists of three layers, usually of different lengths. The triple tier veil is great for brides who want a dramatic veil. Many triple length veils are made with removable tiers so the bride can remove the chapel or cathedral length portion of the veil, and continue to wear the shorter lengths throughout their reception.
Veil Length Reference Chart
The blusher veil is a short, single layer of veiling worn over the bride's face before the ceremony. It usually measures between 24 to 26 inches from the top of the headpiece to the hem of the veil. Traditionally, the groom will lift the blusher veil at the end of the ceremony to kiss his bride for the first time as husband and wife. Another popular way to lift the veil is for the father of the bride to escort his daughter down the aisle, and once they reach the alter and her groom, he lifts the blusher to kiss her and present her to the groom.
Birdcage Veil
The traditional birdcage veil is a short veil that extends just below the chin of the bride. However, a new way to wear it is to crop the net so it falls just below the eyes or to sweep it asymmetrically across the face. The birdcage veil is a dramatic, modern, and unique choice of veil. The bride must have a vibrant and fashion-forward personality, as well as, be a bold and confident woman.
A birdcage veil is made of French, Russian, or English netting. The size of the squares that make up the netting is what differentiates the three classifications, with the French netting being the tightest weave with the smallest squares and the English being the largest squares.
Shoulder Length Veil, also called the Flyaway Veil
The shoulder length veil measures approximately 18 to 22 inches in length. A shoulder length veil is perfect for dresses that have a lot of details, such as beading, on the bust, waist or lower back. It doesn't compete with the details and allows them to be seen by guests and easily photographed. Shoulder veils are great for less formal events, where the bride wants to show off her beautiful dress.
A great version of the shoulder length veil is the flyaway veil. It is for the more "spunky" bride that wants her wedding to be all about fun and fashion, and less about tradition. This is a multi-layered veil that brushes the shoulders, measuring 18 inches in length. It is a less formal style of wedding veil and a great choice for brides wishing to emphasize the back details of their gown and for an ankle length wedding dress.
Elbow Length Veil
An Elbow length veil extends down to the elbow, and can be a single layered or multi-layered when paired with a blusher veil. It measures about 25 inches long and is most appropriate in an informal setting. Elbow length veils look beautiful with a romantic ball gown style dress, because they end where the fullness of the skirt begins.
Fingertip Length Veil
The fingertip length veil is the most commonly worn style, because it is universally flattering on every size and shape of bride, as well as it coordinates well with the majority of dress styles. This popular veil is called fingertip length because it is approximately 36 to 45 inches long and extends to the bride's fingertips.
Kate Middleton wore an absolutely gorgeous silk tulle fingertip length veil when she married Prince William on April 29, 2011. The length of her veil was a unexpected surprise, yet, it was perfect compliment to her delicate figure and elegant dress. Most people expected a cathedral length or regal cathedral length veil, but Kate's choice to wear a beautiful fingertip length veil enabled her to show off her stunning Alexander McQueen gown while maintaining the formality of the Royal Wedding.
Waltz Length Veil, also called Ballet Length Veil
The Ballet veil also called the waltz veil is extremely flattering on brides wearing a fitted gown without a train. It is a beautiful long length, but doesn't overpower a delicate or body-hugging dress. The length of the ballet veil is approximately 45 to 60 inches long and falls somewhere between the knee and the ankle.
Chapel Length Veil, also called a Sweep Veil, or Full Length Veil
Chapel length veil, sweep veil and full veil are interchangeable names for the length of veil that just brushes the floor. The chapel veil typically measures between 70 and 90 inches, and it should extend 6 to 12 inches beyond the train of the gown.
The Chapel Length or sweep veil is a great veil for a formal, elaborate gown with a chapel or sweep train. It is slightly shorter than the cathedral length veil, but they still drape onto the floor. Also, it is a great length have a multiple layer veil and combining the blusher veil and an elbow length veil.
Cathedral Length Veil
The Cathedral length veil is the longest and most formal wedding veil. It is the ultimate show stopper and looks best when worn with a cathedral or semi-cathedral length gown. The cathedral length veil is perfect for
the dramatic bride, having a formal event and a long aisle to walk down. It usually measures between 108 to 120 inches. Traditionally the veil is taken off after the ceremony and wrapped around the couples chairs at the reception to show they are united as one. Then the veil is kept and wrapped around the bassinet of their first born child as good luck.
Brides who are looking for an even longer veil, can go for the Regal Cathedral length veil which extends 130 inches or more. A great example of this veil worn by the beloved Princess Diana when she married Prince Charles.
Additional Veil terms to know when looking for your wedding veil:
Pouf Veil
A pouf veil is a gathered piece of tulle or netting that fastens to a headband, comb or headpiece to create additional height for the veil.
Mantilla Veil
A mantilla is a circular veil made lace, silk or tulle with lace around the edge. It is secured with a comb which allows the veil to frame the face and drape over the head and shoulders. The mantilla veil is typically associated with traditional devotional practices among women in Catholicism.
A mantilla veil is most appropriate for formal and semi-formal weddings held within a church, but can be worn at other ceremony locations as long as it coordinates with the wedding gown and the theme or type of wedding.
Double Tier Veil
A double tier veil consists of two layers, usually of different lengths. A double tier veil is a great option for brides who want to wear a blusher during their ceremony.
Triple Tier Veil
A triple tier veil consists of three layers, usually of different lengths. The triple tier veil is great for brides who want a dramatic veil. Many triple length veils are made with removable tiers so the bride can remove the chapel or cathedral length portion of the veil, and continue to wear the shorter lengths throughout their reception.
Veil Length Reference Chart
Friday, May 4, 2012
DONATE YOUR WEDDING GOWN TO HELP A GREAT CAUSE!
You dreamed of your perfect wedding gown your whole life. The day was magical and you have the photos and memories to show it! Your new life with your wonderful husband has begun but there in the back of your closet hangs your wedding dress. Wondering what you’re going to do with it? Why not make it someone else’s special memory too! Here are some charities doing amazing things with donated wedding dresses.
Do you want your wedding gown to help make life better for the people of Haiti?
BRIDES FOR HAITI! Accepting wedding dresses and prom gowns, St. Mary's Catholic Church in Barnesville Maryland sells donated dresses at consignment shops to raise money to help its twin parish in Haiti, St. Joseph's Parish in Carcasse. Prom dresses are first offered free to inner-city high school girls at a March prom gown giveaway in the District of Columbia. St. Mary's helped bring the first medical doctor to Carcasse, built the first-ever school building in Carcasse and brought the first internet-satellite access. To donate, please see www.st-josephs-haiti.com
Do you want a military bride to have the joy of wearing your gown on her wedding day?
BRIDES ACROSS AMERICA located in North Andover Massachusetts helps US military brides across the nation by giving them free wedding gowns. Many military brides who could not afford a beautiful gown have been able to have one through this wonderful charity. For details about this charity and to donate, please see www.bridesacrossamerica.com.
Do you want your gown to help underprivileged New York City children?
BRIDAL GARDEN sells wedding gowns and uses the money to help New York City children in need. This is a great way to help underprivileged children. For donation information, please see hyperlink www.bridalgarden.org
Do you want your gown to help cancer patients have a special wish come true?
BRIDES AGAINST BREAST CANCER in Milwaukie, Oregon sells wedding gowns to raise money for the MAKING MEMORIES BREAST CANCER FOUNDATION which helps to fulfill wishes of seriously sick cancer patients. See www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org for detailed donation information supporting this very special charity.
Do you want a bride who can't afford a wedding dress to wear your bridal gown?
ST. ANTHONY'S BRIDAL, in Bethesda Maryland helps low income brides achieve the wedding of their dreams. Wedding gowns are made available for free use to lower income brides. St. Anthony's also lends out for free use a variety of reception items and decorations. Gowns are also sold to higher income brides at the flat rate of $150 each to help pay the Center's rent and operating expenses. To donate to this unique charity, please see www.stanthonysbridal.com
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
The Tale of the Tossing of the Garter and other customs
Today, the tradition of the wedding garter is tame in comparison to France of the 14th century. In North America, the bride wears two garters; one as a keepsake garter and the other for the throw away.
Both garters are worn on the right leg just above the knee.
Before the removal of the garter, the bride first throws her bouquet to the single women.
The groom removes the throw away garter from the brides leg, sometimes he removes it with his teeth , but more appropriately nowadays he uses his hands. He does this while the bride is sat in a chair.
After the garter is removed, he then throws it to the single male guests. The male guest then takes the garter and places it on the leg of the single female guest who has caught the bouquet.
Those that catch either item are said to be the next to marry. In some instances, it is said that they will marry each other.
The keepsake garter is removed later in private during the honeymoon night.
Numerous wedding garter traditions have been obtained over the years that still seem to become rules of etiquette today. Take a look at a few that are still popular and some that have long since been forgotten.
The garter tradition originated back to the 14th century. In parts of Europe the guests of the bride and groom believed having a piece of the bride’s clothing was thought to bring good luck. They would actually destroy the brides dress by ripping off pieces of fabric. Obviously, this tradition did not sit well with the bride, so she began throwing various items to the guests , the garter being one of them. It became customary for the bride to toss the garter to the men. But this also caused a great problem for the bride….sometimes the men would get drunk, become impatient and try to remove the garter ahead of time. Therefore, the custom derived at having the groom remove and toss the garter to the men. With this change, the bride began to toss the bridal boutique to the unwed girls who were eligible for marriage.
Another interesting custom dated back to the ancient times where the wedding garter represented the virginal girdle. When the groom removed the garter from the bride, this represented the bride’s relinquishment of her virginity.
An Old English custom was while the bride and groom were in their bridal chamber, the wedding guests would sneak into the chamber picking up discarded stockings and throwing them at the couple. Whoever flung a stocking that hung on the bride or groom’s nose, would be the next to marry.
“ Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue and a Silver Sixpence in her Shoe”
Did you ever wonder where the custom “Something Blue” derived from?
Wearing something blue dates back to biblical times when the color blue was considered to represent purity, faithfulness and fidelity. Back then the bride would wear a piece of blue clothing or a blue band around the bottom of her dress. The ancient Roman maidens also wore blue on the borders of their robes to symbolize their love, fidelity and modesty, while the Christians associated it with the purity of the Virgin Mary.
Both garters are worn on the right leg just above the knee.
Before the removal of the garter, the bride first throws her bouquet to the single women.
The groom removes the throw away garter from the brides leg, sometimes he removes it with his teeth , but more appropriately nowadays he uses his hands. He does this while the bride is sat in a chair.
After the garter is removed, he then throws it to the single male guests. The male guest then takes the garter and places it on the leg of the single female guest who has caught the bouquet.
Those that catch either item are said to be the next to marry. In some instances, it is said that they will marry each other.
The keepsake garter is removed later in private during the honeymoon night.
Numerous wedding garter traditions have been obtained over the years that still seem to become rules of etiquette today. Take a look at a few that are still popular and some that have long since been forgotten.
The garter tradition originated back to the 14th century. In parts of Europe the guests of the bride and groom believed having a piece of the bride’s clothing was thought to bring good luck. They would actually destroy the brides dress by ripping off pieces of fabric. Obviously, this tradition did not sit well with the bride, so she began throwing various items to the guests , the garter being one of them. It became customary for the bride to toss the garter to the men. But this also caused a great problem for the bride….sometimes the men would get drunk, become impatient and try to remove the garter ahead of time. Therefore, the custom derived at having the groom remove and toss the garter to the men. With this change, the bride began to toss the bridal boutique to the unwed girls who were eligible for marriage.
Another interesting custom dated back to the ancient times where the wedding garter represented the virginal girdle. When the groom removed the garter from the bride, this represented the bride’s relinquishment of her virginity.
An Old English custom was while the bride and groom were in their bridal chamber, the wedding guests would sneak into the chamber picking up discarded stockings and throwing them at the couple. Whoever flung a stocking that hung on the bride or groom’s nose, would be the next to marry.
“ Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue and a Silver Sixpence in her Shoe”
Did you ever wonder where the custom “Something Blue” derived from?
Wearing something blue dates back to biblical times when the color blue was considered to represent purity, faithfulness and fidelity. Back then the bride would wear a piece of blue clothing or a blue band around the bottom of her dress. The ancient Roman maidens also wore blue on the borders of their robes to symbolize their love, fidelity and modesty, while the Christians associated it with the purity of the Virgin Mary.
Friday, April 27, 2012
Other Alternatives to Throwing Rice; Try Butterflies
Brides are looking for different ways to make their wedding unique. The releasing of butterflies is starting to become a very popular alternative to throwing rice. They are environmentally friendly and beautiful. As the butterflies fly around and even land on guests, you will see the delight and excitement on their faces. They will leave talking about the release and some may even be walking out with a butterfly on their shoulder.
When ordering butterflies, you want to make sure that they come from a reputable butterfly farmer. You do not want to try to save money and order "grow your own" butterfly kits. There are many things that can go wrong and you don't want to be disappointed on your wedding day.
The butterflies can either be released individually or as a mass release. You may want to consider the event to decide what type of release to do. You can order enough butterflies to hand out to all of the guests, you can just have the wedding party do a release, or the bride and groom can do a mass release. When doing a mass release, three to four dozen make a nice release. You can do more or even less, depending on the impression that you would like to make.
The individual release envelopes are a triangular shaped envelope. Different farmers offer different options. Some use origami envelopes; others use a card stock type. Some will offer to have names and dates written on the envelopes free of charge and others will charge a small fee.
The mass release box comes in many different sizes, shapes and decorations. You can opt to make your own or buy one from where you purchase your butterflies. They can range from a plain basket with netting wrapped around it, that you make yourself, to the more extravagant box decorated in satin and flowers. You can talk this over with whomever you purchase your butterflies from. They will be able to advise you on the best effect that you would like to achieve.
You do have to remember that the butterflies cannot be released in the rain or in temperatures below 65 degrees, depending on the type of butterfly that you purchase. In the event of rain, you can use a hanging cage that you can place your butterflies in and hang them at your reception. Where you purchase your butterflies will be able to help you out with what would be the best thing to do and ideas on what to do.
As you can see, you have many options and ideas that you can do with a butterfly release. They will add that unique and elegant touch to your wedding, but beware, they just might steal the show.
Information was collected from http://www.butterflysalesoutlet.com/
When ordering butterflies, you want to make sure that they come from a reputable butterfly farmer. You do not want to try to save money and order "grow your own" butterfly kits. There are many things that can go wrong and you don't want to be disappointed on your wedding day.
The butterflies can either be released individually or as a mass release. You may want to consider the event to decide what type of release to do. You can order enough butterflies to hand out to all of the guests, you can just have the wedding party do a release, or the bride and groom can do a mass release. When doing a mass release, three to four dozen make a nice release. You can do more or even less, depending on the impression that you would like to make.
The individual release envelopes are a triangular shaped envelope. Different farmers offer different options. Some use origami envelopes; others use a card stock type. Some will offer to have names and dates written on the envelopes free of charge and others will charge a small fee.
The mass release box comes in many different sizes, shapes and decorations. You can opt to make your own or buy one from where you purchase your butterflies. They can range from a plain basket with netting wrapped around it, that you make yourself, to the more extravagant box decorated in satin and flowers. You can talk this over with whomever you purchase your butterflies from. They will be able to advise you on the best effect that you would like to achieve.
You do have to remember that the butterflies cannot be released in the rain or in temperatures below 65 degrees, depending on the type of butterfly that you purchase. In the event of rain, you can use a hanging cage that you can place your butterflies in and hang them at your reception. Where you purchase your butterflies will be able to help you out with what would be the best thing to do and ideas on what to do.
As you can see, you have many options and ideas that you can do with a butterfly release. They will add that unique and elegant touch to your wedding, but beware, they just might steal the show.
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Friday, April 20, 2012
Bustles!
We thought a blog about bustles would be appropriate to follow our train lengths blog. Regardless of how long your train is, your train will add elegance as you walk down the aisle. But sometime during your wedding festivities, those extra yards of lace and satin will probably be in the way. Adding a Bustle to your gown will make walking and dancing easier, and keep your gowns hemline cleaner also.
History of Bustles
Bustles date back to the 1800s when stylish women wore a frame underneath their dress to support the back of their very full skirts. This Victorian fashion also helped women's waists look smaller (a fashion goal that never goes out of style).
Bustle is in use today primarily to lift the long, elegant trains of wedding gowns off the floor. Instead of a framework worn under the wedding gown, the long train is lifted with buttons or ties to create a lovely bouffant style that is also very practical.
Although almost all brides utilize Bustles for their wedding gowns, you may be surprised to discover that the dresses do not come with bustles in place. They are added during alterations. This makes sense since all brides are not the same height and your bustle should lift the back of your gown to your hem length. So your bustle must be custom made.
Bustle Options
You have several choices in bustles: The Over Bustle and the Under Bustle (also known as the French or Victorian bustle) are the most common. But you can also choose the Austrian bustle which is less common but beautiful (see below.)You can choose the style you prefer and the one that will flatter your gown the best.
Bustles for Delicate Fabrics
Use care in selecting your bustle style if your gown fabric is delicate. The weight of the gown on the bustles may tear transparent, lightweight, fabrics like organza. So if your fabric is delicate, choose a bustle style that reduces the weight on each individual bustle. Read below for several bustle options.
The Over Bustle
The Over bustle consists of several hooks and eyes lifting your train off the floor. The "eyes" are placed along the waistline. The "hooks" are sewn in about 14" to 20" down the back skirt. Lace appliques, rosettes or bows may be needed to cover the hooks and eyes. Covered buttons also work well, and may look nicer, especially if you have buttons down the back of your gown. The longer your train is, the more hooks or buttons you will need.
The Under Bustle
Another option is the Under Bustle also known as the French or Victorian bustle. This method works especially well for gowns without a waistline and gowns that are especially decorative in the back area, as it doesn't cover up any lace or details in the gown right below the waist. The gown is lifted from the bottom area. The Under Bustle is also more secure than the Over Bustle.
For the Under Bustle, ribbons are sewn under the gown securing the outer fabric to the lining. Use different colors of ribbon to make the task of tying easier. Another way to make a French Bustle is sew loops into the inside back side of the gown in a diamond shape. A ribbon is run through the loops, gathered and tied to give the gown a bouffant look.
Austrian Bustle
While it is not as common, you can also create a very interesting bustle by creating a casing down the back seams and running a ribbon through it. The ribbon is pulled to create a look similar to balloon shades.
As you can see, with a variety of bustles to choose from you can add a great deal of style to your wedding gown while making it much easier to get around.
History of Bustles
Bustles date back to the 1800s when stylish women wore a frame underneath their dress to support the back of their very full skirts. This Victorian fashion also helped women's waists look smaller (a fashion goal that never goes out of style).
Bustle is in use today primarily to lift the long, elegant trains of wedding gowns off the floor. Instead of a framework worn under the wedding gown, the long train is lifted with buttons or ties to create a lovely bouffant style that is also very practical.
Although almost all brides utilize Bustles for their wedding gowns, you may be surprised to discover that the dresses do not come with bustles in place. They are added during alterations. This makes sense since all brides are not the same height and your bustle should lift the back of your gown to your hem length. So your bustle must be custom made.
Bustle Options
You have several choices in bustles: The Over Bustle and the Under Bustle (also known as the French or Victorian bustle) are the most common. But you can also choose the Austrian bustle which is less common but beautiful (see below.)You can choose the style you prefer and the one that will flatter your gown the best.
Bustles for Delicate Fabrics
Use care in selecting your bustle style if your gown fabric is delicate. The weight of the gown on the bustles may tear transparent, lightweight, fabrics like organza. So if your fabric is delicate, choose a bustle style that reduces the weight on each individual bustle. Read below for several bustle options.
The Over Bustle
The Over bustle consists of several hooks and eyes lifting your train off the floor. The "eyes" are placed along the waistline. The "hooks" are sewn in about 14" to 20" down the back skirt. Lace appliques, rosettes or bows may be needed to cover the hooks and eyes. Covered buttons also work well, and may look nicer, especially if you have buttons down the back of your gown. The longer your train is, the more hooks or buttons you will need.
The Under Bustle
Another option is the Under Bustle also known as the French or Victorian bustle. This method works especially well for gowns without a waistline and gowns that are especially decorative in the back area, as it doesn't cover up any lace or details in the gown right below the waist. The gown is lifted from the bottom area. The Under Bustle is also more secure than the Over Bustle.
For the Under Bustle, ribbons are sewn under the gown securing the outer fabric to the lining. Use different colors of ribbon to make the task of tying easier. Another way to make a French Bustle is sew loops into the inside back side of the gown in a diamond shape. A ribbon is run through the loops, gathered and tied to give the gown a bouffant look.
Austrian Bustle
While it is not as common, you can also create a very interesting bustle by creating a casing down the back seams and running a ribbon through it. The ribbon is pulled to create a look similar to balloon shades.
As you can see, with a variety of bustles to choose from you can add a great deal of style to your wedding gown while making it much easier to get around.
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Train Lengths Explained
We all know what a wedding train is! When we were girls, we tied white sheets to our waists and pranced "down the aisle". But now you're engaged and it is time to decide what train length is best for you! There are 6 standard lengths available, each term here represents a length category. Not to be confused with Hem Lengths, a train length is the length from the waist to the hem in the BACK of the gown!
No Train: Well, by definition, this is NOT a train, it is still an option so we will include it here. This is sometimes called a Floor Length Train, but if you are opting for a tea length gown or shorter, it may not even be floor length. Generally, it will be the same length front and back. This type of gown is is perfect for an informal wedding or a garden wedding , and can also be done for a semi-formal wedding if you wish.
Sweeping Train: This is the shortest of the trains and is also called a brush train because it just brushes the floor. Usually, the back hem is only a few inches lower then the front hem. It is perfect for an elegant informal or semi-formal wedding gown. It provides the elegance of a train without to much added fabric in the way.
Chapel Length Train: This is currently the most common train because it has the elegance of a full train but is still not overly cumbersome. A chapel train is generally 4 feet from the waistline. This is perfect for a semi-formal wedding gown but could be used for a formal or informal wedding gown as well.
Semi-Cathedral Length Train: A semi-cathedral is about half way between a chapel and cathedral length. Perfect for a semi-formal or formal wedding gown.
Cathedral Length Train: This is a popular choice for a formal affair or for that fairy tale look. A cathedral train is generally 7 1/2 feet from the waistline and is usually used for a formal wedding. These gowns often come with a bustling option or a removable train to allow for better movement on the dance floor.
Royal Train: Remember Princess Di's wedding gown? This is one of those trains this is still out the door when you reach the alter! If you dream is to have a Princess Di train, this is it! Also called a Monarch train, this train generally falls 9 ft from the waist line and is only used for the most formal wedding.
Often, the length of your train is determined either by your tastes or your wedding style. I have listed the most common wedding styles for each train option, but you can choose whatever suits you best. If you do not want a long train for the whole event, you can also consider a sweep train with a long, removable veil for that elegant look at the alter and free movement on the dance floor!
No Train: Well, by definition, this is NOT a train, it is still an option so we will include it here. This is sometimes called a Floor Length Train, but if you are opting for a tea length gown or shorter, it may not even be floor length. Generally, it will be the same length front and back. This type of gown is is perfect for an informal wedding or a garden wedding , and can also be done for a semi-formal wedding if you wish.
Sweeping Train: This is the shortest of the trains and is also called a brush train because it just brushes the floor. Usually, the back hem is only a few inches lower then the front hem. It is perfect for an elegant informal or semi-formal wedding gown. It provides the elegance of a train without to much added fabric in the way.
Chapel Length Train: This is currently the most common train because it has the elegance of a full train but is still not overly cumbersome. A chapel train is generally 4 feet from the waistline. This is perfect for a semi-formal wedding gown but could be used for a formal or informal wedding gown as well.
Semi-Cathedral Length Train: A semi-cathedral is about half way between a chapel and cathedral length. Perfect for a semi-formal or formal wedding gown.
Cathedral Length Train: This is a popular choice for a formal affair or for that fairy tale look. A cathedral train is generally 7 1/2 feet from the waistline and is usually used for a formal wedding. These gowns often come with a bustling option or a removable train to allow for better movement on the dance floor.
Royal Train: Remember Princess Di's wedding gown? This is one of those trains this is still out the door when you reach the alter! If you dream is to have a Princess Di train, this is it! Also called a Monarch train, this train generally falls 9 ft from the waist line and is only used for the most formal wedding.
Often, the length of your train is determined either by your tastes or your wedding style. I have listed the most common wedding styles for each train option, but you can choose whatever suits you best. If you do not want a long train for the whole event, you can also consider a sweep train with a long, removable veil for that elegant look at the alter and free movement on the dance floor!
Have you seen the new special issue from Martha Stewart Weddings? A beautiful issue full of real weddings and ideas to help couples personalize their big day. With a round up of 10 of their favorite real weddings over the years. No matter what your style, guest list count, color palette, or destination, there's something forevery one so check it out!
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
How to find wedding dress undergarments that flatter!
You've seen thousands of photos, tried on dozens of wedding dresses. But you may have missed some small items in your search for the perfect wedding day look, those essential unmentionables that go under the dress. Undergarments provide the foundation necessary for your outerwear to look how it's supposed to. They can change the way your dress fits, so you'll need to purchase them before your first fitting. With such broad choices out there, we thought we’d share a few wedding dress undergarment secrets with you.
If you’re wearing a:
Backless wedding dress – A backless dress typically has a higher front which means that lift in your chest area is going to be important. In many boutiques you’ll find bras that stick to your breasts and give the lift you’ll need. Another option for wedding underwear underneath a backless dress is a backless bra with see-through straps.
Fishtail skirt – The fishtail skirt is the perfect shape to show off your sexy curves. Enhance your figure with a seamless push-up bra or wedding corset.
Wedding dress with sleeves - You can wear virtually any type of undergarments with this type of wedding dress, so go for comfort. To keep everything tight and in control, a bust-shaping body slip will do the trick
Bias-cut wedding dress - Wedding underwear is extremely important with this type of dress due to the fact that it hugs your body tightly. Because the dress is so form-fitting, look for a bra that boosts and enhances.
Spaghetti straps and a full skirt - You also have a lot of options with this type of wedding dress. Find seamless and smooth undergarments for a perfect look.
Halter-top wedding dress - These types of wedding dresses are popular, you’ll need a halter-top bra or a bustier. I suggest a halter bra for added comfort and extra support. These types of undergarments are easy to find, since halter tops are so popular. Try on several, and choose the most comfortable one that lifts and enhances.
Always remember to bring your undergarments with you when going for your wedding dress fitting!
If you’re wearing a:
Backless wedding dress – A backless dress typically has a higher front which means that lift in your chest area is going to be important. In many boutiques you’ll find bras that stick to your breasts and give the lift you’ll need. Another option for wedding underwear underneath a backless dress is a backless bra with see-through straps.
Fishtail skirt – The fishtail skirt is the perfect shape to show off your sexy curves. Enhance your figure with a seamless push-up bra or wedding corset.
Wedding dress with sleeves - You can wear virtually any type of undergarments with this type of wedding dress, so go for comfort. To keep everything tight and in control, a bust-shaping body slip will do the trick
Bias-cut wedding dress - Wedding underwear is extremely important with this type of dress due to the fact that it hugs your body tightly. Because the dress is so form-fitting, look for a bra that boosts and enhances.
Spaghetti straps and a full skirt - You also have a lot of options with this type of wedding dress. Find seamless and smooth undergarments for a perfect look.
Halter-top wedding dress - These types of wedding dresses are popular, you’ll need a halter-top bra or a bustier. I suggest a halter bra for added comfort and extra support. These types of undergarments are easy to find, since halter tops are so popular. Try on several, and choose the most comfortable one that lifts and enhances.
Always remember to bring your undergarments with you when going for your wedding dress fitting!
Friday, April 13, 2012
The Vintage Wedding
If you're the kind of bride who is drawn to the ways and styles of the past, a vintage wedding may be just for you. Vintage weddings will bring you back in time where rock and roll and hairspray was a hit. The first thing the couple should think about is the specific time period. The vintage weddings theme can either be Victorian or retro, 1920’s to 1960’s. If the couple wants exciting concepts in the past, Victorian inspired setting will suit them. The couple who usually wants to have a vintage wedding would like to capture the atmosphere of real love and romance. Most couples say that traditional weddings nowadays lack the real essence of the event which is the celebration of love. In a vintage wedding, everyone will get to feel the past starting from the dress, songs and the dance.
Wedding gowns for this type of wedding are rich in history and character. The type of gown will also depend what time period the couple will have as their theme for their wedding. Most vintage style wedding gowns are elegant, glamorous, sophisticated and fanciful. For the groom, he may have a tuxedo specially made for the occasion which will also reflect the time period or their wedding theme. If the couple wants their guest to feel the vintage-style, they may send an invitation to their guest earlier informing them of the wedding theme. This must be done so that the guest will have ample time in looking for vintage style dress.
Aside from preparing the guest, the most important thing is to decorate the wedding venue properly. The couple and the guest should be brought back to the time period which the couple has for their wedding theme. Elaborate floral displays and laces will work for Victorian wedding concept. Ask the caterers to even have vintage-style looks and dress if possible. The music will be very essential in creating the correct theme atmosphere. Thorough research about the type of music and what music was the favorite during that time will help a lot. Preparing for a vintage wedding can be lots of fun. Going back to the past will definitely make everyone enjoy and feel good. Vintage weddings will be a glorious event for everyone. Go back in time and feel the love, romance and excitement by planning for a vintage wedding.
Wedding gowns for this type of wedding are rich in history and character. The type of gown will also depend what time period the couple will have as their theme for their wedding. Most vintage style wedding gowns are elegant, glamorous, sophisticated and fanciful. For the groom, he may have a tuxedo specially made for the occasion which will also reflect the time period or their wedding theme. If the couple wants their guest to feel the vintage-style, they may send an invitation to their guest earlier informing them of the wedding theme. This must be done so that the guest will have ample time in looking for vintage style dress.
Aside from preparing the guest, the most important thing is to decorate the wedding venue properly. The couple and the guest should be brought back to the time period which the couple has for their wedding theme. Elaborate floral displays and laces will work for Victorian wedding concept. Ask the caterers to even have vintage-style looks and dress if possible. The music will be very essential in creating the correct theme atmosphere. Thorough research about the type of music and what music was the favorite during that time will help a lot. Preparing for a vintage wedding can be lots of fun. Going back to the past will definitely make everyone enjoy and feel good. Vintage weddings will be a glorious event for everyone. Go back in time and feel the love, romance and excitement by planning for a vintage wedding.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Melissa and Kevin - Abernethy Center October 2011
I met Melissa when she was gown shopping and we immediately hit it off and started discussing wedding planning. She and her fiance Kevin are the sweetest couple and I was thrilled to be planning their wedding. The theme that they wanted to do was a vintage/fun theme with the colors of yellow and pewter.
The ceremony took place just after dark and the gazebo looked beautiful with all of the lights and the glowing tent in the background. After the ceremony the guests headed to the tent which was very cozy and all decked out for their reception to follow.
My favorite part of the wedding was during a dance for the bride and groom. Each of the guests grabbed a votive candle and made a circle around the bride and groom as they danced. It was very romantic and such a special moment for the Melissa and Kevin.
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