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Friday, May 4, 2012


You dreamed of your perfect wedding gown your whole life. The day was magical and you have the photos and memories to show it! Your new life with your wonderful husband has begun but there in the back of your closet hangs your wedding dress. Wondering what you’re going to do with it? Why not make it someone else’s special memory too! Here are some charities doing amazing things with donated wedding dresses.

Do you want your wedding gown to help make life better for the people of Haiti?

BRIDES FOR HAITI! Accepting wedding dresses and prom gowns, St. Mary's Catholic Church in Barnesville Maryland sells donated dresses at consignment shops to raise money to help its twin parish in Haiti, St. Joseph's Parish in Carcasse. Prom dresses are first offered free to inner-city high school girls at a March prom gown giveaway in the District of Columbia. St. Mary's helped bring the first medical doctor to Carcasse, built the first-ever school building in Carcasse and brought the first internet-satellite access. To donate, please see

Do you want a military bride to have the joy of wearing your gown on her wedding day?

BRIDES ACROSS AMERICA located in North Andover Massachusetts helps US military brides across the nation by giving them free wedding gowns. Many military brides who could not afford a beautiful gown have been able to have one through this wonderful charity. For details about this charity and to donate, please see

Do you want your gown to help underprivileged New York City children?

BRIDAL GARDEN sells wedding gowns and uses the money to help New York City children in need. This is a great way to help underprivileged children. For donation information, please see hyperlink

Do you want your gown to help cancer patients have a special wish come true?

BRIDES AGAINST BREAST CANCER in Milwaukie, Oregon sells wedding gowns to raise money for the MAKING MEMORIES BREAST CANCER FOUNDATION which helps to fulfill wishes of seriously sick cancer patients. See for detailed donation information supporting this very special charity.

Do you want a bride who can't afford a wedding dress to wear your bridal gown?

ST. ANTHONY'S BRIDAL, in Bethesda Maryland helps low income brides achieve the wedding of their dreams. Wedding gowns are made available for free use to lower income brides. St. Anthony's also lends out for free use a variety of reception items and decorations. Gowns are also sold to higher income brides at the flat rate of $150 each to help pay the Center's rent and operating expenses. To donate to this unique charity, please see

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

The Tale of the Tossing of the Garter and other customs

Today, the tradition of the wedding garter is tame in comparison to France of the 14th century. In North America, the bride wears two garters; one as a keepsake garter and the other for the throw away.
Both garters are worn on the right leg just above the knee.

Before the removal of the garter, the bride first throws her bouquet to the single women.

The groom removes the throw away garter from the brides leg, sometimes he removes it with his teeth , but more appropriately nowadays he uses his hands. He does this while the bride is sat in a chair.

After the garter is removed, he then throws it to the single male guests. The male guest then takes the garter and places it on the leg of the single female guest who has caught the bouquet.

Those that catch either item are said to be the next to marry. In some instances, it is said that they will marry each other.

The keepsake garter is removed later in private during the honeymoon night.

Numerous wedding garter traditions have been obtained over the years that still seem to become rules of etiquette today. Take a look at a few that are still popular and some that have long since been forgotten.

The garter tradition originated back to the 14th century. In parts of Europe the guests of the bride and groom believed having a piece of the bride’s clothing was thought to bring good luck. They would actually destroy the brides dress by ripping off pieces of fabric. Obviously, this tradition did not sit well with the bride, so she began throwing various items to the guests , the garter being one of them. It became customary for the bride to toss the garter to the men. But this also caused a great problem for the bride….sometimes the men would get drunk, become impatient and try to remove the garter ahead of time. Therefore, the custom derived at having the groom remove and toss the garter to the men. With this change, the bride began to toss the bridal boutique to the unwed girls who were eligible for marriage.

Another interesting custom dated back to the ancient times where the wedding garter represented the virginal girdle. When the groom removed the garter from the bride, this represented the bride’s relinquishment of her virginity.

An Old English custom was while the bride and groom were in their bridal chamber, the wedding guests would sneak into the chamber picking up discarded stockings and throwing them at the couple. Whoever flung a stocking that hung on the bride or groom’s nose, would be the next to marry.

“ Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue and a Silver Sixpence in her Shoe”

Did you ever wonder where the custom “Something Blue” derived from?

Wearing something blue dates back to biblical times when the color blue was considered to represent purity, faithfulness and fidelity. Back then the bride would wear a piece of blue clothing or a blue band around the bottom of her dress. The ancient Roman maidens also wore blue on the borders of their robes to symbolize their love, fidelity and modesty, while the Christians associated it with the purity of the Virgin Mary.